I know not every guy thinks this way, but sometimes I feel that I'd be more popular if I did put myself out there like that. Thing is, I've had my time, and I'm getting to the age that I need more substance in life- but seems like the dating scene is woefully saturated with the culture of stuff like NSA/FWB and one-night stands. I'm not knocking people who want to do that, but there always seem to be invisible pressure to put out, or dudes move on. Or they don't think you like to have "fun" because "fun" is now equated with sex. I enjoy that kind of "fun", but also real fun that comes with being social outside the bedroom. Being sex positive in thinking, I feel that there's room for everyone: People who want to hookup and people who are fine with seeking a less than superficial and temporary form of dating. I'm tired of women getting shit, or being passed over because they want to know someone first.