@Aivery Really? It was an arranged marriage?

Lol. It happens all the time when you're the kind of person people actually want to have sex with. I'm a nurse and work part time as a bouncer in a night club....stuff happens. Exciting and spontaneous stuff that gets left behind by people who only use sex to get something or manipulate people..sometimes it's just about sharing a moment without over thinking it.

@Aivery Sort of. I was a virgin when I married my husband but I'd known him since I was eight years old. The only way I know of marrying a stranger is an arranged marriage.

I'm a demisexual, so feel zero sexual attraction for any gender or person until I've associated closely with that person for well over a year. Then I am only sexually attracted to that one person. Even the thought of random sex is nauseating to me.

Any men who bring up sexual stuff with me, or show me sexual photos is going to be blocked.

@fathercat I can't relate to that at all. Any men who do random hook ups or casual sex I eliminate from dating consideration immediately. But apparently most US people do that.