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Will there always be a dominant person in any given relationship?

When all is said and done!

atheist 8 Dec 24
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If you want to keep it that way.

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There usually is-if there isn't you have the best or worst relationship ever.

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Only if you want it to be.

THIS is a great answer! You are a master of conciseness.

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Yes and no. It is very possible for two caring and mutually respectful people to agree that they are equals, as a whole. Still, within that, One of the two always has attributes and skills which makes them better at some things within the relationships -- and so does the other. The key is to utilize those strengths for the benefit of both, not for false mastery.

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I've seen it numerous ways: two dominants; two passives; a dominant at work and passive at home; dominant at work and home and passive in bed; and so on. Now if you had asked if there is always a dominant person in any successful relationship, I would have said, "I've seen it numerous ways:...". In other words, if there were a cookie-cutter answer, more of us would probably attain it faster. In reality, it depends on the people, the time, the place, the mental health, and more.

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not necessarily it depends on how the relationship is defined. and it's only defined by discussion. you can't assume you partner knows how you feel. communicate.

johns Level 4 Dec 25, 2017
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Everything in life is give and take, and that goes doubly for relationships. I am one of those fortunate ones who has had a long term relationship where we share our roles more or less evenly. Our relationship is the answer to your question, and that answer is, no. Not always.

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In many couples, yes, but not all. My husband and I operated on fairly equal footing. He was expert at some aspects and I was at others. We traded off who was in charge.

Zster Level 8 Dec 25, 2017
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Find your soul mate or match and your question will be a mute irrelevant point.

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Think that we (sweetie and I) have a partnership. Some things that I am good at, and some that she is good at. But, maybe I am kidding myself.

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