Looks aside, looks mean diddly squat if there's nothing else, it's probably sense of humour and specifically how they react to mine. If there's no connection or reaction, even a smidgy one, then there's nothing to move on with

I get crazy attracted to a guy with a goofy sense of humor and someone that can go deep at a moment's notice. The contrast is sexy.

personalty

Certain characters of people are acceptable, great, and maybe even MORTALLY NECESSARY in the personal and impersonal domains.

Other characters are a waste of time all-around, and I can only hope to survive an interaction with them, because they mishandle interactions, or are just too messed up to be a sensible way to spend time.

Unfortunately, someone's complete character is not evident until one has come to learn enough about them, and learning about a person doesn't seem to come until they would comply with any curiosity about their past, or whatever else information is necessary.

Initially, I'm usually attracted by a person's sense of fashion. I'm usually attracted to the most outrageous looking person in the room.

Their character.