I’m a single dad. Didn’t bother to read your entire post besides the headline. I’m here to stop prejustice.

I agree. I think it stems from the patriarchy which endlessly peddles the mother and child trope.

It makes me angry actually. Let men be fathers. Fathers are just as important as mothers

After divorcing my children's egg donor, I ceased to have a function except for providing $18k per year plus benefits in child support...so she could send my kids to school in thrift store clothes. After the shame of divorce some women want to construct a tidy little family of their own without bother or concern about the children's father. My kids and I remained very close until I moved from CA to CO in order to take care of my 93yr old mother.

The ex took that opportunity to tighten up her new blended family enough that it squeezed me out while telling my kids that I had abandoned them...and that they should pay attention to the step-father that was there for them every day. Of course she could have spun this as an example of duty to a family that picked me out of an orphanage crib...or about how I uprooted my family and attended to a miserable negative Narcissist that hated my guts...but nah.

That would have encouraged my kids to look at that separation in a positive light and kept me in their lives. But move along...nothing to see here. Yesterday was just another father's day with zero acknowledgement of my existence by my children.

My husband was a single father fighting for custody of a 5 year old boy when I met him. The judge for his case was against him until I came along because she thought a single father couldn't handle the demands of the job. She favored the meth addict mother instead.

I'm sorry you have encountered sexism. It's never okay.

Nope, I get respect. Must be a location thing. I am in New England.

As a single custodial father, my experience has not been like that at all. I have seen teachers, administrators, and counselors embrace and encourage me every step of the way. I do consider myself lucky in that respect, but at the same time, I created a good deal of that luck by making myself known in the school as a solid parent and as a volunteer when I was available to do so.

Side note: If I tell people that I am a single dad, they typically assume that I see my kid on the weekend and dutifully send my child support payments to his mother in a timely fashion. No. I am a parent 24/7/365. When she does make her appearances, it causes problems for everyone (me, her, our son, the school....) and the child support she is ordered to pay is thousands of dollars in arrears. I can complain about all the things a stereotypical single mom complains about, so, therefore, I tell them that I am a single mom--with different plumbing. It is funny, it prompts questions, and it commands respect for the struggles that I endure to take care of a strong, healthy, well-adjusted kid against all the odds.

You are relatively unique, can't say I can knowledgeably comment on this.

Unfortunately this is still part of the holdovers of the 50-60's homemakers

Had mine 100% of the time for the last ten years. I feel you on this, there's a definite difference in attitude towards a single dad than there is a single mom.