Being overly religious or being a negative person in general life is too short to deal downers all the time.
Alcoholic
Liar/cheater
Anger issues
Abusive
Controlling
Selfishness
Into wild kinky stuff
Not good.....bad.I admit to my faults as everyone has them. I smoke and love weed probably too much. I can make a good living when I am interested, but I am constantly distracted. It may sound strange but I am very perceptive to who a person is by looking at their faces, skin, smell, voice. No one is perfect, or even much more than a talented ape, but I do appreciate talented apes. Deal breakers are alcohol, hard drugs other than weed, .....um...a girl that thinks her own smell is bad. That one really is a pain. Oh, and people consumed with the behavior of others. (wow I'm a hater) racists, oh! and dog sneakers!!!! Ugh. Ok if you like dogs and I don't, just enjoy your life honestly. Don't tell me you like cats, and I come home one day to a freakin dog!!!!
Deal breakers for me: Alcoholic, drug addict, does illegal shit, has kids, no ambition, always involved in drama, liar, polygamous, anger issues, controlling, abusive, shorter than me (I need someone who can reach the top shelf!!!), won't get rid of spiders, unclean, horrible hygiene, dislikes animals, hunts for sport, doesn't try to help people or animals, loves talking about politics, homophobic, racist, anti-vaccine, morbidly obese, skinny as a stick, eating disorders, irresponsible, big impulse spender, no sense of humor, makes no effort to try and spend time with me, easily offended (because I am an asshole and like to pick and poke fun at my significant other in a joking manner).
Childish
Codependent
Magical thinking
Not straight
No chemistry
Baby Mama Drama
Kids at home full time
Kids with gang ties or if he has gang ties
smokers of cigarettes
Must like cats.
Non readers - I don't care if it is books or websites, but must read
Dependence upon alcohol or other drugs (except possibly caffeine)
Non tolerance
Condescension
Poor personal hygiene
bad attitude
No motivation
No desire to improve himself or his world.
No curiosity
Unkindness
Location, I don't have time or funds to travel
Must have passion of some sort, something that lights his fire.
If he supports the current white house occupant
I'm not attracted to:
Smokers
Bigots
Someone who doesn't take care of their body and health
tRUMPSTERS
Arrogance
History of abusing women
Unadventurous
Never smiles
Keep in mind, this is my list based on first hand experience or lessons learned. I would not use this list to limit friends, as I generally love people. For anything particularly intimate, though, it applies.
Meanness
Narrow mindedness (whether from lack of understanding/intelligence or other causes)
Selfishness/greed/narcissism
Religiosity
Laziness
Rotten hygiene
Drinks more than casually, drugs (incl tobacco)