I happen to like going through particularly old cemeteries. There is so much history there, and the old gravestones are like works of art. There is one nearby with a lot of union soldiers buried in it and the battles where they perished. I think about where they may have been and what they experienced during their lifetimes.
I own an old cemetery, deep in the woods on a thousand acres I bought 30 years ago in West Virginia. It's a 10-15 minute walk from a beautiful stone bridge, when the creek is low-enough to cross, on a quiet trail loaded with wildlife (no hunting ever). I like to go there and sit on my picnic table and just listen to the sounds in the woods. Never hear a peep from the graves, all 80-150 years old. Had lots of picnics there over the years.
I use to go there and visit my mom and dad. We took our dogs to see if they would get spooked. They ran around and played. We don't go anymore. It's just a memory of a pain we felt when we buried all my family members there.
Never seems to like the smell somehow. After a while reading tombstones I lose interest. My ashes over the Caribbean Sea soothe me fine right now but... until I change my mind.
I called other, cemetaries just seem strange - the butterfly has left the cocoon - I do get honoring the dead. The old ones have interesting histories. I have a bit of a fear of being alone in the dark and it would not matter if I was in a cemetary or the woods.
The two biggest wastes of real estate on the planet are cemeteries and golf courses.
Credit to Rodney Dangerfield in Caddyshack. That's not the actual line, but that's how I always say it.
I am interested in the movement for chemical free human remain treatments. But what would we do with bodily remains if not bury them? Seems like a problem that could be solved by collective thinking possibly.
@Melind Cremation is my go-to. There's a thing where you can have your body buried with a sapling. You can have your body weighed and be dropped in the ocean, so you can become an artificial reef. There are many alternatives to embalming. My mother's husband was a mortician. The funeral industry in this country is as big a racket as the wedding industry.
I love it in Rio de Janeiro there is an old cemetery from the 1800's and I remember going there so I could be alone...so much history so peaceful ...
possibly both. I did love the road they made of gravestones on the film Schindler's list.
It's someone's land been taken to make graves. I'd say bury the body with out the cement and all.
It’s turned into a money making enterprise. See, if you fill the body with chemicals, you get to charge for those chemicals. Then, since the body is filled with toxic chemicals, you have to sell a cement box to contain said chemicals. Since the land is now contaminated with a chemical laden cement box, and people’s odd attachment to their chemical filled loved one’s corpse, you cannot reuse the land.
On the Azores, where my mother is from, there are family plots. These plots are reused over and over. After a few decades, another member will be buried in that spot.
@Annaleda it is becoming a bit of a trend to do eco funerals... has to happen quickly, as no embalming is done, the coffin is bio degradable, and put only 4 feet in the ground, so the body returns to siol. it's usually done in a wooded parkland. Far less impact on the environment than the cremation, which apparently is very polluting. Indigenous people used to do all sorts of interesting things. In the cook islands, they used to build a wee raft and pushed the body out to sea. Made perfect sense, as the ( coral) ground is very unsuitable for funerals. But unfortunately, they were talked out of the habit by the missionaries.