I can definitely relate to this. A lot of times it really feels like I'm the only one, so thanks for posting this. It's nice to see there are actually others in the same mind frame.

I like the independence, but that's probably the only part I like. I kind of like to dress elegantly, but I feel like I need an excuse to (like a date). On top of that, I don't find much to spend my money on besides other people, and without the excuse of a birthday or holiday that doesn't happen much. My monthly payments are so low I can pay double what's necessary and still put hundreds into savings every month. I graduated without loans. Drinking is another thing that I could spend money on but rarely do (I often go over a month between drinks and have never gotten blackout drunk).

Sex is also not one of my priorities. I would rather like to find someone to have a mutually caring and understanding relationship with though. I have a habit of listening way more than speaking, and it doesn't seem to result in particularly intimate friendships. Probably less than half the people I know are aware that I play Xbox and Blizzard games, and likely under a tenth know I am an agnostic atheist.