Would you rather be submissive or dominant in bed?
I once had a switch try to get me to dominate him. I failed miserably, lol. He basically had to tell me what to tell him to do. Kind of defeats the purpose....
You've had an interesting life, Marcie.
@brentan it was pretty boring until about 5 years ago
@Marcie1974 Which do you think was worse, Marcie, the boring part or the 'wild' part?
@brentan oh the boring part is much worse. I did what was expected of me for almost 40 years. I finally feel in control of my own life!
@Marcie1974 Isn't that interesting that bad life can be better than no life? It's good to hear that you're back in control. I have read that you struggled with alcohol on account of things and I hope the future will work out good for you.
@brentan thank you
Even though I'm capable of being a switch, I prefer to be more submissive. And nothing wrong with a little vanilla.
Gosh I must be old. I don't understand what you just said.
@brentan in regards to dominant or submissive, I can switch from one to the other. I can be both. But would prefer to be more submissive. Vanilla - Conventional sex, or vanilla sex, is sexual behavior that is within the range of normality for a culture or subculture, and typically involves sex which does not include elements of BDSM, kink, or fetishism. =)
Remember what they say about variety? Spice of sex!
BDSM taking the piss out of non BDSM?
I hate that 'vanilla' put down.
After reading your profile I understand this comment much more now.
Its really between me and my significant other Dan. When you're a couple you set a plan for happiness.Should be private between couples even here.
I am fairly certain that the poll answers are anonymous. Then again I am not a level 8 maybe you have perks I don't know about yet. If it wasn't anonymous though I would agree with your stance.