Aside from physical characteristics, what do you find irresistible about a potential/current lover?
An issue with authority, a sense of justice, a sense of humor, disdain for uptight accepted standards of behavior and appearance, disdain for the oppression of the lower class, and amazing intelligence.
Intelligence, how they treat others, their willingness to give time to the community.
Outgoing and curious about the world. Also she asked me about phone number, Just met her today and we;'see what happens