Yes. One of those delightful dilemmas.

I was with one person for a few years, who was good friends with another person before I met him. I became friends with this other person, and we all hung out together. Fell for the other one too, and ended up with him. We still all remained friends, and used to sing "My Best Friend's Girlfriend", by the Cars, as a goof.

Years later - though we're in different states , and they both have mates, who I've met and like as well - we're still all friends !

I have committed the sin of calling one by the other name. It is a Big Sin... specially because in my life they always know of the other. From the "if you get off this bench to fix her tire we are finish". To "the two by the door of a club in front of the other and I can see a shoe coming out of the foot of one and I can't walk out of the place". To a cousin "making fun of the second to visit, didn't you were here an hour ago? you look alike". But the young lady that became my wife will enjoy the "he is mine and I fight anybody for him". Bad reputation to have when the girls know... his GF will fight you. It was the 70's... this is a new me. No longer in the need to expand my reach. And that was my problem exactly I never choose... I took and did.

Nope. My strategy was more "heat-seeking missile" than anything else. I took a long time selecting a target, aimed well, and never missed.

It all comes down to price all things being equal.

Nope, but apparently many women have chosen the other guy over me. One woman even called me and bragged about it. Stay classy. The nice plot twist was that she said that he was her dream guy and perfect in every way... and then he cheated on her. So, in the vein of The Last Crusade, "She... chose... poorly."

Three. I finally quit trying and let them decide. It worked out just fine. I've been with her for 27 years now.

No. I don't put myself in those positions. If I'm dating someone then I'm with them. If I don't want to be with them, then I'm not with them. I don't start messing with others while I'm in a relationship or really just dating one person. Not judging others. Just telling it how it is for me.

Unfortunately yes, in college. My boyfriend wasn't fully committed and took me for granted. He was immature. I met Bruce while taking an intersession architecture class where we traveled all over New England uniting us on an academic level. We dated till the end of the semester and things fizzled over the summer. He went on to be an author and still lives in NH.

no, and I'm glad about that

I was never popular enough for that to be a realistic concern.

Not for a long time but yes, more than once. One time I made the right decision and the other time I remember I did not.

I did, and I felt later like I’d made the wrong decision, but everything has worked out for the good.

No.. But I had been on the other side though. Ended up being ditched. Lucky me. Ha ha.. The other guy happened to be my friend and we still continue to be good buddys.

Don't even want to think about this...