I just ignore the prayer, but do not eat until it is over. Simple courtesy.

It doesn't bother me a bit to pretend for a minute while my mind drift away towards sinful lovely things

I try to be respectful toward people. When friends say grace, I quietly look around while their heads are bowed. Teenagers catch my eye and grin.

Friends know I am an atheist. They love and accept me for who I am. The feeling is mutual.

I try to avoid the situation to begin with . Failing that , I wait impatiently , and irritably for them to conclude their invocation .

I wait respectfully, with my eyes open, and my head un-bowed. And silently , I feel my own attitude of gratitude that I have food to eat - as many do not.