While I'm aware of the unbalance , the question becomes , am I that desperate ? SO let's look at the Arab countries . Having seen what the regulations are against women there , why would I want to go there ? It's bad enough here .
Also , I've met a few women who came to this country looking for husbands . Having seen what actually happens , after the , "and they got married and lived happily ever after , " bit , I'm thinking , No way !
If you go to a foreign country for a husband , you could easily wind up not speaking the language , unable to support yourself , and totally under the thumb of someone , who may or may not have your best interests at heart . If you don't know the language , you won't even know what the lonely hearts agency who encourage these mail order brides , have told the potential grooms you are or are interested in being . I wonder how many of these foreign women coming here , supposedly college graduates , actually write on their resumes that their hobbies are cooking , cleaning, doing laundry , washing dishes , and changing diapers ?