With all due respect, there is no evidence that we are "...here for a reason and a purpose." We are here as a result of nature's mandate for reproduction. We will live for our season (barring accidents, etc.) and then we will die. There is no evidence that there is any other "purpose".

We're here for a reason?!? Are you on the right website?

@JeffMurray @dahermit

Thank you both for your comments. There is a reason why we are here even if it is "nature's mandate". We also have a purpose while here, even if it's to provide a carbon exchange between nature. That has nothing to do with religious dogma.

@DoctaJo Purpose and consequence of existing are very different. If we were the only thing that did it, that might make more sense, but if our purpose is for oxygen/carbon dioxide balance, we're doing a horrible job. Dogma or otherwise, reason has nothing to do with it. Reason and purpose implies design.

@JeffMurray Our planet is out of balance because we are collectively doing a horrible job. I agree that purpose and consequence are different. I will say this our balance with nature would be better if we were living up to our purpose and treating the earth better. Our unbalanced relationship is what creates our consequences.

@DoctaJo We are the way we are because of evolution. All organisms are as selfish as they can be and maintain survival. We have evolved to a much higher survival level exacerbating the level at which we can be selfish. The worst part is that it couldn't have happened any other way.

And again, your talking about "living up to our purpose" as if it was intended and planned. This is the language of theists.

@JeffMurray Is survival a purpose?

@DoctaJo I would not call that a purpose, no. And for some, I wouldn't even categorize it as a desire.

Im not sure if you read my whole post. But i mentioned being greatful for the people I have in my life. I have seeked help, which is a huge step for anyone struggling.
Thank you for your comment.

I am sorry to hear about your sister. My bro in law died Nov 18 so I been with my sister postponing my return to Las Vegas. I had become her surrogate husband and she is not handling well for now. At least haven't see her crying for a week now so maybe she turned the corner.

@GypsyofNewSpain sorry to hear that, things get tough as we get older.

I bet a lot of people who have committed suicide thought they would never commit suicide. I used to think there was a 0% chance I ever would (outside end of life situations). Not so sure anymore.

@Rugglesby Losing friends faster than I can make new ones. He was the first voice I hear in the morning and last voice I hear at night. Always on my back because I am fucking retired and that's it... but my joke of "I will dance in your grave because I no longer worrying about the little things like making a living." I am taking the joke back never to use it again. Is like the phrase... "Everybody likes fun and games until somebody loses an eye." Thank You... we the survivors... is up to us the privilege to eyewitness the past and survey the present.