Is there no absolute truth anywhere?
The ones I hang with do. I admit it is a very small group. I guess because many in my work just don't see their power in life and are defensive -- hence make excuses or think it is their bad luck. So my close friends are those that are straight with me and themselves. And when either of us aren't --we tell each other. Just the way I prefer my close relationships. 35 + hours of drama a week is enough.