She has a degenerative illness, but has taken a turn for the worse. I don't know how much time she has left. My dad and I have been doing everything we can for her, while making sure we can still take care of ourselves. But she is so anxious and nervous and trying to control everything, including after she's gone, and she's also making my dad anxious, and all this is just adding to my own stress and fear of losing her.
Just looking for some kind thoughts or feedback. Thanks.
Best wishes. To the extent you can remember the circumstances you find yourself in don't care about your feelings. You do.