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Are you more open and honest online than in person?

Over 50,000 people were surveyed. Here’s what they found: 60% of respondents in the U.S. said they were more honest with their online friends than with friends they see in person. The survey also found that people are more open on the internet and the majority of the world prefers to discuss their sex life with online friends. In my experience, I have found that online friendships facilitate a frankness that is rare in face-to-face interactions.

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What about you? Do you find that you tend to be more honest and open with online friends than with friends you hang out with in person?

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VictoriaNotes 9 Jan 22
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Nope. I am a pathological liar and never tell the truth anyway.

But I could be lying about that...... πŸ™‚

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No, I am just as open in person as on-line. People can ask me anything, anytime (except for the obvious things like SS#, obviously) and get a completely honest answer...However, I do warn people that they might not care for my answer in a lot of cases. I have no secrets, and with a little careful detective work someone could find out anything they wanted to know about me anyway...

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Oh, @VictoriaNotes, your situation makes me feel downright lucky. I’m sorry it’s been so alienating for you, and I hope new (better) friends come into your life to compensate for the shallow, judgmental ones you lost.

I’m a pretty private person whether online or offline. I tend to have a lot of acquaintances but very few close friends. Only one IRL friend knows where the bodies (and the unedited conversations about sex) are buried. However, in that small sampling of close friends are people I’ve met online who are cross-over: we eventually met IRL.

I think β€œonline” is an awfully broad term. To me, there’s a difference in exposing every inner thought on Facebook than there is in opening up in a forum such as this one.

@VictoriaNotes What a fantastic quote, Victoria! I have several people that I’m sharing it with right now.

Years ago, I joined Goodreads for a book club and ended up in a private group of like-minded women who also weren’t religious, were raising free-thinking children, and found the world exciting instead of the β€œdifferent is suspect” attitude I found locally. I’m lucky that, even if it took searching them out from around the world, I had found them.

My daughter has followed in my footsteps and has an extensive network of friends worldwide, and technology has improved so that it’s even easier for her. I wish I’d had this opportunity when I was an alienated high school student. It would have helped to know I wasn't alone.

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The only reason I chose this is the word "tend". I do have close friends I can discuss things I wouldn't normally share with others. Being somewhat of an introvert it's easier to think of what I am saying than to do so spontaneously.

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Hmmmm... great article! This is my main social media. I have an RV forum I ask guys questions on how to fix things. I would probably just stay with this one if I became single... I'm just to set in my ways to reach out to a person and get close with them. I'm an old fogey. Lol... I would probably start gold mining or looking for crystals to sell.

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I tend to be a very honest person in general, I don't use my personal details online, and I may be more inclined to jest, and many of my jests are taken seriously, but there is no intent to deceive.

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I am equally open and honest anywhere and anytime I communicate

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I chose other since I really can't answer yes or no. I don't know yet; I haven't really had online friends. I guess one could argue no right now, but I think I can't give a direct yes or no answer at the moment.

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When on line in print, I tend to have a more measured response, proofing, editing, etc.
In person I'm more "in your face", atheist 2.0 style.

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I'm the same brutally honest, snarky, irascible bitch online that I am in person. Enjoy!

Sounds like my kind of gal.

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I think I am just as open in person or online. However, I think I’m more vocal online. Well obviously vocal isn’t the right word. I express myself more frequently online. That sounds better. I’m really the same guy at the store or on the sidewalk as I am online. Quality unchanged, quantity increased online.

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I'm not any less open in person.

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I'm pretty much the same from what I can tell...people online say I ask too many questions and people irl say the same thing lol

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I am WYSIWYG in person and online, always honest. I tend to share more details IRL with someone I know well and trust. Anything you share online becomes public information.

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