Since I am a woman of few words, I cut them short and tell them when I have some divine epiphany I'll get back to them.

I feel you there. I'm in a really religious city. All my co-workers are religous and so are the people in the community center. Most of our customers are as well. They come dressed up on Sundays, from church. All though we don't get but 3-4 church families now. I've not seen an atheist for 7 months now.

There are a very wide range of shared beliefs and different congregations. I was surprised to find a small fellowship of families that focuses on where we agree, not where we disagree. Wiccan, Humanist, and more. Some ritual, some discussion, outside speakers on various community issues,
So, yeah, there are groups out there where you will be comfortable.

I truly feel for you being surrounded by such ignorance and delusion.

think of all the other 4000 plus religions world wide that have also got it wrong, it sickens me that everyone who believes in their own religion claim to be the only true religion and pass the burden on "believe"

My response would be as follows.

1. You are conflating issues. Your belief in an existential threat does not equal morality.
2. If someone has to threaten you to keep you in line, you are not a moral person.
3. Religion and other belief in supernatural phenomena cannot be quantified or verified. As such they are not scientific. Any truth claims and/or worldview(s) that you present based on said beliefs are logical fallacy and/or insanity in my eyes. Choose another topic or quit talking to me.