Beggars can’t be choosers, sometimes if you just want casual sex, you just lower your standards to no diseases, and not entirely unenjoyable. Just make sure they know you want nothing else to do with them except casual, nothing wrong with it if everyone agrees to be a respected toy for a short time. I have a couple friends I like to hang out with and slip into bed with from time to time, but the gaps are months, and they both know that I won’t be available for sex forever. I’d rather have just one dependable partner I can learn to like more and more, I’m sick of not knowing anyone’s body, but that’s only one aspect.

Well, there are many women on this website close to your age if that's what you want, unless you are only going for the young ones. Also many women love to ballroom dance, and is one of the things I missed doing when I moved to Thailand in 2010. So "Bon courage, et bonne chance."
Ya never know until you try.

Theres some really nice people on this side.You know ,like minded.You have to be really lucky if you connect and there in the same country.Even if they are what's the chance of them being in the same vicinity.

it seems like people like to talk on the board more.

You also have to keep in mind not everyone here came for the hook up. Many are here because they want to talk with others who aren't throwing around fire and brimstone or praises to Jesus with every other line. Just company rather than companionship or dating. At least that was my impression when I first signed on.

Looks like your a keen dancer. Is that not a way for you to meet women/ people in real life?
Although I met my last partner via the interweb, I'm thinking if I meet someone else its more likely to be through things I do where I interact with people in real life rather than spending hours one finger typing
What I do like about this site is it helps to keep my gray matter ticking over

I'm meeting someone this weekend from this site. He seems like a lovely person. So yes, people do meet. Hookup? That term means getting together to bang... I don't know about that. I'm not seeking casual sex.

Omg is it a hook up site, why didn't someone tell me!!

All this time I thought it was a discussion lounge where you can get out and about and mingle with different people and chitchat about this that and the other! and in the mix you might meet someone special.

yes they do

I think there are not yet enough people here to make it really useful asa dating site. For that you need a number of people with some sort of geographic proximity, and unless a site is geographically targeted you have to have a very large number of users to get there. That's why new dating sites and apps often start off targeting limited areas such a few large cities.

I've emailed back and forth with a dozen women. I talked to two on the phone and went out with one of them twice (IRL). I met someone else from OkCupid that I've dated about six times and have taken myself off the market for now to see if that sticks.

Perhaps you are picking the wrong people or you need help with your messages. Good luck!