Moral... a made up rule used to draw a line determining right and wrong. It's arbitrary, kids.

You are pretty much describing my views.
To me the the only true immoral action is to do harm (or allow one to be harmed due to being irresponsible).
Everything else is matter of personal choice and taste and has no moral implications, sex included.

I equate moral with morale...health, a sense of well-being. Helping others makes me feel good. Living according to good health and having a purpose eliminates despair.

I no longer catagorize sex as having anything to do with morality. The moral aspects of sex is a cultural and religious imposition on biology and instinct. I don't think its morally wrong to breathe, it is natural to all mammals, should we also question its morality?

I do realize that sex is more complicated with humans, the great apes that we are, but this is simply self imposed. Now I certianly do not plan on cheating on my wife but that is to honor her wishes and the expectations of others. Getting down to brass tacks, I do not feel guilty for being human and having sexual desires. It is very helpful for ensureing the survival of our species. Religion simply uses our natural instincts againt us to control us and make us more dependent on relgion. Nope, don't need to take part in that.

As far as possible, "do no harm" beyond that "go for it!"

Do as little harm as possible and try to stick with what is in our best interest as a species.

So in many areas is pretty subjective, but if you have agreement on what morality is then we can usually work out something resembling a moral code. For me, if something promotes or improves wellbeing, then it is probably moral - but it is difficult to promote my own wellbeing without someone else's suffering. hence the do as little harm as possible statement.

I think about things and try to do the right thing or form the best opinion based on the circumstance. I think it is much more moral than simply following what religious leaders say. I try to not harm, and not be mean for the sake of it. I don't steal and try to be honest, but not in a way just to hurt people.

Sex is a big one that I don't agree with the church on. I'm sex positive to put it like a millennial. Abortion, I kinda go both ways although safe ones should be available. I wish birth control would be separated from that debate because it prevents abortions and is a good thing.

I do see where sex became immoral in most religions. Many of the "morals" in religion came about as not doing things that would cause problems to you or society. Before birth control sex meant you got pregnant. Up until very recently it would have been inadvisable to have sex with different people without a committed spouse. Still not right the women were (are) shamed for it, and men praised. Also that women weren't expected or intended to get as much out of it as men..

I don't follow any particular moral school of thought, but I do have some guiding principles. They are, In no particular order,

• live and let live (so long as safe, sane, and consensual)
• do as little harm as possible/reasonable
• do good when possible/reasonable
• be kind to others, especially to animals and children

[psychologycharts.com] (I agree with this. Hence, behave so you don't go to hell, is not very high on the stages of morality)

That sounds great Ryan... I like that too.

The ideas of morality will differ according to people's cultures, upbringing, sexual orientation, and genetics. For instance, I am demisexual, which means I have zero sexual attraction for any gender or person, unless I've been in a relationship with that person for over a year.
Then I'm only attracted to that one person.
I am so androgynous that it's difficult for me to even tell what my sexual orientation would be if I had one I could identify.

Morality is what is best for humans. With that as the measuring stick everything can be derived. And the results are superior to the morality religions teach.