How did your 'Christian' or 'religious' former spouses justify their cheating and lying to you or about you?
She claimed that I was manipulating the marriage counseling sessions, probably because she'd already found someone. After that, it was just a matter of logistics, as I was serving overseas.
Mine said it was a terrible mistake the first two times. Then that she didn't think she could be monogamous the third. Left me when I tried to prevent her cheating again.