I would agree (or maybe it's my preference) that one should be able to find both genders sexy - or at least be able to recognize it. If not, how would one be able to consider their own self sexy, or know how to make their self appealing to their partner or prospective partners? I think part of the beauty of intimate sexuality is not only finding your partner sexy, but yourself as well.

@sweetcharlotte I meant gender orientation preference social conditioning. For instance, when transgender people who are same-sex or hetero sex oriented transition to the opposite gender, they often keep the same gender orientation status, even though they are now dating the opposite of the gender they dated before.

For instance, many butch lesbians who realize they're actually transmale, and transition to male, then start daing males, keeping their "gay" labels.

@sweetcharlotte "Chatting up" means talking in a friendly manner to someone you've recently met, because you are sexually attracted to them. "TFB" means "Too f-cking bad,"

But why are you asking me that? I never used those terms here.

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Hello love, where on earth have you been ?

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Now you are back, is he still around ?

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Not involved anymore ?

@sweetcharlotte How does anyone learn about sex? I'm sorry my remarks hit you so hard, and I do not see my name on your pictures.

@sweetcharlotte I looked at your pics. I saw other names but did not see my own. I hope this is made clear to you now.

@sweetcharlotte How about going back to school. Maybe that would help.

@sweetcharlotte I am fine and it is now morning. I did not get my education in Australia but went to school in Sweden. Surely you must know how you feel when it comes to your sexuality. What orientation you go towards, everything else is just rubbish and hype. That is nothing one learns in books or on google.

@sweetcharlotte then you don't need a test.

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