Mine is great-looking guys and Pomeranians.
Black leather mini's and high heels. Catholic School girl uniforms too, carry-over from my youth in Catholic School. Also really good, really hot Thai and Korean food.
In men: an intriguing accent, a sharp wit, slow drawn-out kisses
Otherwise: lemon ice cream
Most people are subconsciously attracted to the familiar, not to who they think they want, according to studies.
For example, if parents were emotionally abusive, gaslighting people, that will likely cause their children to be attracted to the same sort of people, not their idea of who they think they should like.