Other than bedroom stuff, I think men are a bit harder (pun???)to get romantic gifts for. Once I made my husband a CD of songs I thought he'd like. They were hard rock songs, but the gesture was romantic-ish. ; )
Women, do you like flowers? I don't care to get them. I'd rather them in a pot then cut, because I have to watch them wither and die.
Fruit flowers, maybe? Or, just fruit will do! But, I don't prefer food. The very best romantic gift for me is probably a back massage with lotion of course!
What would be an amazing gift for you?
It might be something you do or when you do it than something you buy just like you say
Something that was mentioned in passing, that shows they care.