Is it cheating if you date more than one person at a time? I have only dated one and can’t get my head around dating more.
Like most have said, it's cheating only if you have agreed to a monogamous relationship with someone. Simply dating multiple people, not having committed to any particular one to be exclusive, is perfectly fine.
That said, cheating is not in my vocabulary, EVER, because I would never agree to any monogamous relationship.
In my 20s, I decided dating more than one person at a time is crazy-making for all involved. Although I was open about it, both men were jealous and wanted more of my time.
While I was in graduate school and working full time, they inevitably pressured me during finals week.
"Hold that thought," I replied. "This is finals week. Give me a week, and I can talk about it."
It was maddening. So I downshifted to dating one man at a time. This works better for me.
Until there's a ring or a declaration that you're only seeing each other and it's a bf/gf/gfgf/bfbf thing technically can't be called cheating.
That means if I'm seeing someone and there is no discussion of a designation of any sort everything is still free range.
Would I discuss others I'm seeing? NO. But assume that's a thing until see above.
It's not cheating unless and until you have agreed to be mutually exclusive....then, anything outside of that IS infidelity.
I date a fair bit but definitely not having sex with people. I’m in the “getting to know you” phase. I’m always open and honest with everyone I meet and date.