If you could go back to one of your ex's and spend the rest of your life with them would you?
No. And I've never been able to think of an extended period of time, like a month or more, in my past that I would like to relive the same as it was before.
married once, The next time I think about getting married I'm going to find some woman I don't like and buy her a house, It's cheaper
LOL
If masochist is your trait then yes, but apply the adage repeating the same and expecting different outcomes. Yeah... maybe hypothetically an ex is envolved in an accident. Is comatose, on life support and when awakens you are the only person she or he remembers. And so happens still in the glove compartment is the 55 million lotto ticket. That would be the only scenario letting an ex back in your life makes sense.
All would need to undo great evils done to me but having accomplished great healing and restitution I would forgive and try again far more wary now than blind trusting before