I'm surprised there is no 50/50 option, it's only fair to give in order to get. Except for that one lesbian I dated, she just would not suck a dick although she did like to have her rug munched.

i have not measured the time. it would sort of interfere with the enjoyment! but i have spent some time telling people how to spell receive.

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I always prefer starting out taking a shower together and enjoying the excitement and pleasure 69 can give (best foreplay possible), so it is give and take together.

I'm not keeping score but I think it's been pretty even, allowing for the fact that some women in my life haven't wanted it or been comfortable either giving or receiving it. NOT controlling for that factor, I feel comfortable saying I've given 5x what I've gotten. On the other hand ... I haven't particularly asked for it either. I'm more interested in the intimacy than the detailed mechanics.

Apparently there is 3 times as much giving as receiving. That math does not add up. Personally , I never had a clock on it.

I have ALWAYS given more than I have received. That said, I am talking about oral TO COMPLETION, not foreplay.

There is oral foreplay and oral to O.
As foreplay, I would say we're kinda even. As for O, I gave many more of those.

I don't keep track. But if I want to give and I don't get in return, then it doesn't work for me. And because of bad experiences, I feel it's really important to talk about what you want and need with each other.