Someone found me here, went to FB and messaged me.. we were talking just fine and he asked me out, then just blocked me out of nowhere? I don’t know what’s going on with guys nowadays but I’m just wondering what the hell do I do? Even tho I know it’s not me.
Paola, you’re in the lower levels. Please stay on site for your communication. If someone asks you to go to Facebook they get too much private info right away. If you go offsite, create a email address that is not connected to anything person or professional in any way. These people that want to go to Facebook right away are usually scammers. Change your Facebook password immediately
Not be dismissive of your problem, but welcome my world. I can't tell you how many times I've started a conversation with a woman, she says hi, then that's the last thing she ever says.
I've chatted with someone for as long as 9 months and had them disappear. Online relationships are built on fantasy. I think the person I was chatting with was married.
So someone stalked you, then asked you to go out and got accepted and then blocked you. I think you are better off without that.
I think the Internet and social media in particular has become a sort of safe playground for the socially and emotionally awkward or undeveloped. Some seem clearly to me to be seeking fantasies of connection and relationship and are frightened of actually becoming involved with someone. I do not know a thing for it. How could it be you?
This is a good article that explains why it gets to us so much when people treat us that way. [psychologytoday.com]
LOL your title is 'A guy blocked me'..... Welcome to the world.
I get blocked on dating sites all the freaking time, sometimes before I have a chance to send a message to someone, or before I do more than "like" someone's profile. I guess that's their response to me, saving them all the hassle of saying "sorry, not interested". I actually appreciate knowing someone is not interested, it shows the person is willing to take the time to consider me in the first place.
Women do the same, correction, humans do that. Keep it moving. Wouldn't mind hanging with you, but distance lol. Oh, and be glad nothing else came about it. No drama is good.