You've been getting the dreggs of love I guess--
I was a man and always looked out for her pleasure but,
I became impotent, more so over time-- I tried to do the stimulants but it wasn't like old days.
People plan for growing and maturing in the sex dept, knowing that ED is looming- We have lot's of options for getting our needs met and
It starts with communication.

I rolled with it and realized that the benefit of having castration to reduce prostate cancer risk and make room in my leggings was a fantastic idea. Makes dancing, sitting, rolling over, et al., so much easier!
A variety of strap-ons should be staples in everyones arsenal-- pun that.

I care about a woman's pleasure. It's important to me. If I can please a woman, it makes me feel wonderful and more complete. I love sex and I love women. I don't need any ED medicine. Yet, I have spent most of my life celibate because women don't seem to want a man like me. I spend my time with my dogs.

Thanks.

Wow, I feel bad for you. Not having a guy care if you're pleasured or not. On the subject of the guy you just cut up in your post, how many times did this happen with the two of you ? Please don't tell me the first because guys get nervous too, ding dong

For someone that seems to want someone to understand about the importance of sex to you, you sure don't seem very understanding of the problems that can occur with older age and sex. I feel like you have way too many expectations and aggressive to your partner which can definitely create anxiety.

That's just what I'm seeing this posting and I could be completely wrong. You even went to the point of thinking of someone is a for not wanting to take a medication that doesn't make them feel right. Wow, that is just so....shitty for lack of a better word at the moment. As much as you may want to say that women have to take birth control this statement, you don't. It's a choice. Just like my choice to get a vasectomy not.

My thought is that you aren't finding the right kind of person for you and that is what your problem is. Someone who wants to do those kinds of things for you. Finding someone like that isn't easy either. Maybe try not to put so much pressure and focus on having sex and enjoy the pleasure of being with your partner in an intimate setting.