Proof that "friends first" is not romantic. ...3rd grade pals are forever that. ....I hate being single but when I'm married our friends are fine

I met a girl just over 30 years ago and we fell in love and had an affair. The situation was difficult and we parted ways but we've stayed best buds and she's one of my best friends. I don't see her very often but we keep in touch and instinctively know when the other one needs a call, I'd be so lost without her as she would without me.

I have a friend that we regularly go out together, just went to a Rays spring training game yesterday. Took a trip last year and stayed at her cousin's in Virginia to see a Nascar race. We go out to listen to local bands, football games, baseball, dinner and sometimes just meet for coffee. If we were intimate we 'd probably hate each other.