What do you think... is love ever completely unconditional? If so, do you think it's limited to certain kinds of relationships (I.e. parent-child)?
Unconditional is a state of the realm of the 'conditional', - it's like saying 0 is not a number but 1 is - so logically no. But people are not entirely logical, they are emotional and that relates to chemistry. Can chemistry be perpetual? Does time change the smell of an orange, do your pupils dilate when you look at someone, do you feel drawn to touch? To me, it's what you feel like, it's not a question to be thought over and decided.
There is unconditional love. But I think it is limited to the animal kingdom outside of humans. Dogs for instance. I’d like to believe it’s possible for humans. But I’m never sure anymore if it’s really possible.
I have personal experiences that prove even the most reliable loving relationships in all categories can permanently fail because of conditions or influences. BUT I still believe people can experience this in the span of their whole lives with one or more persons. I think it would most likely happen in a parent-child or sibling relationship and less frequently in a friendship or adult relationship. I have no way of knowing if this is a statistical norm but the optimist in me hopes it would normally happen in families.
I agree Unconditional does not mean you are a door mat. . . Because it should evolve into being unconditional for both parent and child. The sins of the parent are to be understood and discussed so as to not be shocked when our children are so blooody annoying BUT we love 'em I have clear boundaries and maintain them with all people
It does exist in some people's minds but not mine. Again, what is "love?" Is it supporting whatever behavior another engages in? Is it trying to guide another person to be a contributing member in society, like with a parent? I do not believe in unconditional loyalty. The idea of my tribe right or wrong is just plain wrong. We all need to be held accountable and this loyalty crap is how so many ills have been allowed to exist and thrive.
Love should be positively empowering and sometimes it has to be a tough love.