I joined this group,honestly to look for love,it's true that many women claim not to see colour but that's not true,they say it to make you feel better--I mean they want you not to think of it as the reason they turned you down, but we are now mature enough to read between the lines, I have only met one person,who somehow thought she can date a black man,I know because she contacted me first and we have been talking,but I am not sure if it will work out,my communication with her is not as good as I would want.
Then the distance between me and her seems to be a big problem,plus other invisible obstacles that comes now and then, so my question is, as someone living in the Whitest State/city in US,will I ever really find love? Be it black or white straight woman? Even the few blacks I have made contact with,surely want to date out of their race.Which I think is okay. But how long should I be alone and unloved?