Not just working out.. I live a healthy lifestyle. I eat mindfully and keep active. It would be wonderful to find someone with similar habits.

Not attracted to fat, sedentary men. Since age 22, I have been weightlifting, running and passionately hiking. I want a man who shares my healthy lifestyle.

"I have natural upper body strength," men brag. Then they take off their shirts. It looks like their chest and arms are melting with sagging flesh. Ugh.

No, I am attracted to the final product, whether it is worked out or natural. I love natural, not implants!

I come from a long line of inert couch potatoes, so no. My wife does know her way around a gym however, and recently persuaded me to take up with a personal trainer. I assented to this because I need to do something to stave off my decrepitude. While I got my weight within about 20 pounds of normal a couple of decades ago, my core strength and balance have gotten close to non-existent. I felt I literally had to make a decision to improve my health and damn the torpedoes, or accept that I was headed to an early grave (or at least wishing that I were).

I have gotten through the worst of the hellscape that is pursuing fitness after nearly 62 years of shirking. I can't believe I'm paying for this experience. However ... who knows, I may come out of this with a new appreciation for fit people! I'm down from taking 3 days after a workout to feel remotely human, to a bit under a day ... this is progress. Or so I'm told.

Of course.