"I'm not ticklish," I told my daughter, forcing myself to look bored. "Go tickle your daddy." To my delight, it worked.
Actually, I'm very ticklish. I trained my mind to block it out.
As a child, I learned to will insensitivity when my big sister and brother were tormenting me. This stymied them.
A little shit (as my mother called me), I refused to give them the satisfaction.
The ability to stay calm is useful in emergencies and accidents.
I am very ticklish, but I can also control it...as long as I don't start laughing for a few seconds...once I start laughing, it is over...
My siblings were big ticklers so we would get into tickle fights. My brother was a beast because he would take a small footstool we had, lay it on me and then sit on it and reach down to tickle me until I promised to do one of his chores.
I'm the same. It's kinda automatic now, to the extent that I have to consciously switch on my tickleability when playing with my girls. There's no fun for them in trying to trickle an unresponsive lump.
I learned to control it as an adult. The hack that works for me is to watch while the person tickles. For some reason, watching makes it easier to control. Overall, I am much less ticklish than as a child. And yes, the ability to stay calm is stressful situations is useful, and important.
Ticklishness as a concept has always puzzled me, I have never been ticklish, a have one area at the point be tween hip and thigh that if touched gives me an unpleasant electric shock like sensation down said thigh, and the upper cups of my ears are easily irritated, but the whole bursting in to fits of uncontrollable laughter when touched thing, is something I have never experienced nor understand.
My wife has a number of medical conditions and needs ointments applied to skin conditions, when I help her do this, especially around the calf and feet, she will scream and worse kick claiming that it tickles, it has taken me a long time to accept she cannot help this, as to me it just seems stupid and unnecessarily violent.
To me, the act of being tickled is a violent , abusive act. People think it's funny to tickle someone who says they are ticklish, but it is horrible. Yes, I will kick and scream. I can't help it. I am so sensitive to tickles in certain parts of my body. My feet are the worst . My old fiance liked to paint my toenails and try to give me foot rubs, and I would not be able to tolerate him touching my feet, unless it was a firm grasp....no light touching. I seriously couldn't breathe. I had to fight back. It's a real thing.
There has to be a psychological component inasmuch as when you intentionally try to tickle one's self, it does not work.
My first wife claimed to be able to tickle herself, but then she was an insane arsehole.
I've heard trepanation can make you less ticklish... Or maybe it was defenestration.
I don't know about making myself less ticklish, but I do know that after being tickled for an extended period of time, I stop feeling that 'tickle' feeling and it starts becoming annoying, almost painful for me, or sometimes my body just becomes numb. I don't mind being tickled for a short period of time - very short, if I'm honest. Once I tell the tickler I'm done, no more tickles, they need to stop and not keep going or I might get physical with them, and not in a good way. I try to give them fair warning verbally a few times before I push or punch them, but if they don't take my cue and stop, they're in for a rude awakening.