The way I was brought up it was a man's responsibility to control his actions. Look but don't touch.

Maybe this one too.

Those signs completely miss the point. Let me try my best to make it clear:

Imagine I want to go from my house to a friend's across town. Now, suppose that there is a shorter path which crosses an area of higher incidence of crime (more chance of getting mugged). It is my responsibility to not take that path, even if I am not at fault for getting mugged.

It is a woman's responsibility to avoid, to the best of her abilities, running certain risks. That does not make rape OK. It makes taking unnecessary risks stupid.

Off to the second sign... I have no idea about what real story she depicts. It may be common in the US, I don't know. But let's assume the rapist doesn't think what he did was rape. Does a terrorist know what he is doing is terrorism? Does a muslim that marries a pre-pubescent girl knows he is a rapist? Do jews know they are mutilating a baby during circumcision? Why are some cultures OK and others are not? Well, enough calling out the hypocrisy because I don't know (though I can make a pretty good guess) what these people actually believe. Should people go out and get drunk in an environment where people expect to get sex? Did this woman, once assaulted, go to the police? I hope she didn't expect a criminal to just get a conscience, repent and apologize. I'll make a wild guess and say she did not. But if she did, why is the rapist not in jail? Was there no case to make? If he is, how can there be such a thing as rape culture? If she did not, does she expect mob justice to be better than constitutional justice?

Raping is wrong, getting oneself in dangerous situations is stupid, and not going to the police once things happen is naïve. There will always be criminals, and the world will not kneel to an ideology once they fallaciously accuse all men of rape just because some man are rapists.

I feel sick at my stomach when I hear that women have to be careful. Not that I don't take precautions - I avoid walking late at night, I ask who it is before opening my door, etc. You have to be careful, you have to deal with the way the world is, not the way it should be. But I feel angry when I realize that most (at least I think most) boys are not taught about respect, about consent, that pornography does not portray women in a realistic way. We have to raise both girls and boys to be respectful, decent and knowledgeable. There should be comprehensive sex education for all children. They should be given facts about how to treat people.