Much like the above says, do you really think you're going to meet someone on here or did you join mostly for the novelty?
In my theistic/republican state, it is highly unlikely I will encounter any rational member living within a reasonable driving range.
I probably have already met several members. I go to a lot of Atheist conferences.
I joined for checking out the conversation (another site, atheist.com, turned out to be overbearing). Now, after getting involved, it has become a little bit of both but still mostly conversation.
I am completely open to meeting someone from here, however I'm a VERY private person and have a hard time trusting people. One of the reasons why I've been single for 10yrs.
Most people I talk to seem to want to marry within a week. I personally want to become friends first and get to know a person before I move to the next step.
I'm the same way about trusting people. I would definitely want to meet in a public place for that reason.
I can't imagine any sane person wanting to marry within a week.
I don't think I will, but there's always a chance. An unbelievably slim chance, but still a chance.
No, I didn't think I'd meet anyone here. I live in Montana, the plot map they posted a while back showing where their members lived showed very little activity in my area. When I click on meet and select nearby, it only shows me 2 people who actually live in Montana with a lot of people living more than a full days drive away. If anything, I was just hoping to hear from people who are a little more rational than normal.
I’m next to you in Idaho and I too doubt a meeting or a love connection has any basis in reality. Our beliefs or philosophies are becoming more mainstream and this forum if managed well has the potential to be wildly popular and successful. I also think it’s important for people to have a refuge from the oppressiveness of Christianity and if my voice can help and I have the time, I feel I should be here.
For me personally I am not looking for a relationship and due to some major life experience I’m not sure I will in the future but I leave room for the possibility.
Although I love making new acquaintances (every stranger is a friend not yet made), social media is as it is. I have met a few people from other threads and the outcomes have been generally good, but I don't expect it.
Observation: I don't need anonymity to feel comfortable. Everywhere else I have used my full name, and I have no idea why I chose to use what I have here. Perhaps because it was shorter and would fit the allotted space, though I really can't honestly say.