it's just something that I notice at least in my area "amish" country. I do think your into something with the support system. Perhaps a feeling of belonging is something that instills confidence.

@lawnchaircrew I live in an Amish area as well. They are simple folk with a simple outlook on life. They also are taught to hide negative feelings. I lived in their area, and I know that things are not always as happy as they may appear. But community support, as long as you stay faithful, is always there. Stray and you get shunned, and lose all your community contact. Great way to keep them in the fold.