Unlike Carrie, I remember the high points: three extraordinary lovers. The rest is a blur.
Here's an adorable video of Carrie's lists of lovers from "Four Weddings and a Funeral."
Memories of my last extraordinary lover fuel fantasies for vibrator play.
Ooo...la...la!
All my exes live in Texas (only one but I like to say it !)
Oh, I remember the good parts very well. Those memories are one of the things that haunts me - like I was once there and now I'm here.
I remember the fearless intimacy, the adventures, before the emotional scars, before the fear of emotional death.
The four long term partners, definitely. Ooh, some truly, deeply raunchy memories of those lasses. The little flings (y'know, 2 weeks to a couple of months) as well, some lovely stuff there. The one night, ships passing type events? More patchy, to be honest.
I guess it depends on how you define lover...is the only qualification that you had sex or do you mean someone you had feelings for and were intimate with.
I only cared about 2 of the men I've been intimate with. One was abusive so only fleeting good memories, but mostly bad. The other I only have good memories.
I've had 2 partners and too many lovers. I remember the best of each though I sometimes wonder if they are all staying in place, not combining into a smaller number of super lovers.
For me, if they were good enough to be a lover then they are good enough to be remembered fondly. (Mostly)
Good point. Thank you.