Everyone has parts about themselves that don't measure up against others, so it's more important to find someone who loves who you are right now and help you grow as a person while still loving you.

I read that as not being enough. As for the other reading, you are sufficient in yourself, full stop.

If it that you are not enough.. Or just right but too much for the wrong person? and they are trying to control you as THEY can't cut the mustard ???? (aren't up to the mark etc) .. ?

You are perfect, do not allow anyone else to tell you different. Love you !!!