As it stands now, I would not wish to have sex with someone unless I considered them someone I would wish to spend time with.

I have done that exact thing. Many times. Three of them are ex wives.

It would damage any potential relationship. It reflects badly on both parties. As well as being detrimental to my respect for her, it would shows my lack of self control and respect.

Yes, I don't see anything wrong on that, I mean I would think it happened because we were compatible, because I liked her enough to make me irresistible in her eyes.. I have had that kind of experience in my life..

The pole question and the title of the post don't quite match.

Are you asking if I would have sex with a woman who has had sex on first dates?

Or, are you asking if I would have sex with a woman on a first date?

Probably both.

I, like others have posted, are a bit more leary of such behavior.

But, at my age such new memories are yearned for daily.

Not that I date women that often, my preference is men. But my exhusband and I had a one night stand, don't think that even counts as a first date, and ended up married for 20 years.

Atheists. Gotta love’m.!!

I wouldn't want to sleep with anyone on a first, second, third, etc. date, unless we were exclusive first, and I wouldn't date someone who would sleep with anyone on a first date. They are either desperate, or sleep around so much they could be std-ridden.
Eew.