What a great mixture of opinions. . . A Friend with benefits suits me right now because of my lifestyle but I'm not a serial friend (?) For me it is the approach. I like the sensual aspect of being able to explore another. . That I trust and the other benefit is a friend to talk to about everything and then play some more. Would I settle for a one-man relationship I would. But nothing has moved me to do so in many a full moon. It gives me a chance to wear my favorites and I love setting a mood or having one set for us.

Well it really just needs to be a good friend who loves that feeling and fun exercise. As long as you understand the motivation, and eachothers feelings about what you are doing its pretty damn good. The question may not be classy, but we all think about it I'm sure.

Why would sex with an atheist be better? I'm not following?