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What do you think of a first date with social distancing?

Tomorrow I have a first date with Bob, a nurse, hiker and mountain biker.

I suggested we hike Glacier View Trail in Wenatchee. Wildflowers will be glorious! It's an easy hike- only five miles- and busy on weekends.

We will meet at 9 a.m. at the trail head. Maintain a distance of six feet or more. No shaking hands or hugging. This may feel weird.

Threw myself into personal care after wearing a mask for six weeks. Teeth whitening, face wax, exfoliated face for a glowing look and self-manicure. Most importantly, washed my stinky, sweaty hair after hiking eight miles with a hat yesterday. Glad I have a day for self-care!

Bob was fun on the phone. We both love hiking and live in the same town. Fingers crossed.

Photos:

  1. Enchantment Mountains (8,000 - 9,000 feet) from Glacier View Trail.

  2. Glacier Peak (10,000 feet) from Glacier View Trail.

LiterateHiker 9 May 9
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Behave yourself !

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Good luck

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Enjoy your first date and hike ,will be very interesting with no contact,hand shake hug etc ,but just may leed to something more promising as there is no expectations on either of you when the date is finished,so really should install a comfort level as long as you do not get negative vibes when you first meet. Good luck and enjoy and looking forward to hearing how it went

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Good luck. Sounds like a nice outing

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I simply would not do it. Lets get together and not be together or intimate at the outgo is not a way to start a relationship.

@DavidLaDeau

Are you saying you just want to meet women for sex? Ugh.

I get to know men first.

@LiterateHiker No I would not bother at all. Im all in in my relationships. Sex is not a real issue in developing trust and understanding. Social distancing prevents the building of that trust in a dating situation.

@DavidLaDeau

Nonsense.

Building trust with your partner is essential while hiking. Hiking shows how people handle challenges, if they help you, and if they expect you to do all of the work.

Often men won't listen to a woman and do stupid, dangerous things in the mountains. Inexperienced men usually don't bring enough water or food. They forget sunscreen, insect repellant and/or a jacket.

Like children, they expect me to rescue them.

Definitely disagree with David. I think it’s a challenge to overcome — and then laugh about later if the relationship takes. You can learn a lot about a person in strange times like these.

@JohnnyQB

Exactly. Well said.

@Apunzelle Perhaps, you are right, I never have actually dated. It just seems to be overly complicated. I just like people or I don't. The rituals and cerimonies to me are much like religion, just a waste of time. This being said my girlfriend likes that stuff so I do do it.

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