Most of my family is dead so this is not true in my case. What Trump really did for me is show me who my real friends are. I can talk to a person for 10 minutes or less and know if he is a Trumper or believes QAnon. One man I have known for 50 years will never be my friend again. Never, ever. He told me that what we ought to do with those crossing our border with Mexico is shoot them down like dogs and let their bodies lay where they fell. He thought "Trump would be OK with it." What a moron! He forgot that I can never be OK with it.