Some might argue that the childhood belief in Santa Claus can be beneficial. The belief in Santa can serve as a vaccine to protect children from believing other (more harmful) false ideas.
Parents can experiment with the Santa belief by asking the child:
The belief in Santa can teach the following:
Can the belief in Santa Claus increase skepticism or critical thinking in children?
If yes, how does it improve skepticism or critical thinking?
If not, why does it not improve skepticism or critical thinking?
It is handy for about 8 or 9 years to keep them from going BATSHIT crazy for at least 3 to 6 months out of the year...
Santa is a fun thing to do with kids while they are still a bit naive. I don’t see it as a primer for disbelief, but if it has that effect then fine. Your parenting in general should prepare them to think for themselves whether they decide to believe in a god or not.
Sure, just include the other tidbits, while you're at it. Like St. Nick being the patron saint of thieves and prostitutes.
And you may as well tell them about Candyman and Krampus, too.
They would outgrew the Concept.... another Kid will spill the beans.... I was taken to pick my toys so.... Santa had to compete with The 3 Kings. It was a Fantasy from Day One to Me.
I always extorted good behavior from my kids with Santa.
Idk who angry reacted, but get over it. Sometimes, as a parent, you have to go with what works. My kids are not scarred from it, because when they were old enough to question it, we explained to them about the spirit of giving and kindness and that Santa represents that.
Four stages of life:
I have reached stage four.
As the post puts forward, if your #2 is correct then why would you, a lover of human spirit free of mythology, want to look like the figure?
@rainmanjr Despite the insistence that humans have free will it's science that we have no "will power" control over our biology, especially in fat distribution and hair loss patterns or eye color. This fact is why we have cosmetics and wigs and girdles, and for those suffering mild delusion we have gyms which help us become stronger, and if balanced with diet less fat, but that is at best a collaboration with your biology and displays none of the attributes of actual control.
Does a belief in Santa’s gifts produce better behavior during the weeks before Xmas?
Does worse behavior follow when children stop believing?
I would argue the answer of behavior afterward to be yes. Kids generally told the big truth around age 12. Trouble with identity adjustments begin around puberty. That might be some/mostly/all due to hormones but I'd bet on some being the lie. How can their parents be trusted? Seems to me that S.C. believing nations have bigger problems with teen rebellions.
After finding out Santa Claus didn't exist, I assumed God was a big lie, too. Logical, right?
Not completely. If Santa does not exist what leads specifically to god not existing? Perhaps you grew up religious?
@indirect76 I did go to Sunday school because my sister went. We also sang in the choir, but that was more af a musical event for me than anything else. Our parents took us because my father's law partners went there, and it was a social thing. I was a very skeptical kid, and when I caught an adult lying, I generalized it to other things as well. I don't think I ever believed in God, at least not after age 5. It all sounded like a fairy tale to me.
Santa is like training wheels for tiny Christians, for some of us it was an inoculation against faith, for the rest its cognitive dissonance training.