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Time frame for contact after first meet

I met someone in person from an online site and we both agreed before we parted that we both wanted to hangout again . We had a super long conversation about what we both wanted and we agreed on pretty much everything. He even texted me a couple hours later confirming that he enjoys hanging with me and is looking forward to the next time. A week goes by and no contact. What exactly does that mean?? Ghosting or is this too soon to expect communication. I'm lost 😟
Does this happen to other people?

LibrasDreams 5 Apr 18
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I would say ghosting.

It's happening more and more it seems.

Notwithstanding the idea that you could have and might have already reached out to him, I believe, without an iota of a doubt, if somebody is INTO you, they WILL contact you and they WILL see you, no matter what else is going on in their life.

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Dont worry we all learn something new no expectation is the best expectation
I will keep on trying but without any expectations and if it happens face to face I will take it from there on one step at a time you are lucky you have reached that stage I am still searching

Rosh Level 7 Apr 19, 2018
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I don't have a clue. Don't know what to do. I am reading the comments to get an education on this matter. I have a long way to go to know what is right when it comes to any kinda relationship. I have been a loner for so long. I wound't know if I was bothering them or if they are looking for more communication. Looks like everyone says ditch the dude. Wow.

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I don't know a lot about dating in this new age, but I would say if you booth met online and have chatted and texted and then met in person that any communication after that personal meeting would occure by talking on the phone. Texting after just seems like a polite way of regressing backwards to a non-personal form of communication.

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It's not like years ago . It's not just up to the man to contact these days you have to text call as well . He texted hours later so he was probably expecting you to at least text him . If it's a week you probably still git a chance just say you been busy . Also there are no rules do whatever feels good for you

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I would send him text, and if he doesn't answer I would move on.

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Try texting him.... then give up?

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