Do you think if you post a sexy picture of yourself that you're inviting the kind of people you don't want to date?
Probably
I swear, if more women start posting sexy pics, then I am going to do it, too. lol
I suspect that it's just more accepted when it's a woman posting sexy pics.
@Heart_Truth And what about itty-bitty bra and g-string? My basic point is that I suspect guys are usually viewed in a negative way, no matter what. While women don't just get a pass, but might get compliments.
Whatever makes you happy, do it.
Being treated with respect and kindness makes me happy however most of the time that doesn't work.
a picture sends a message whatever the picture and different people interpret it differently whatever it is. I don't see a problem with it really. any picture may and probably will invite people you won't want to date. I guess I wouldn't make it too sexy in a general way unless you just want sex. there's nothing wrong with attracting people but you can't choose who you attract.
Most people who think they're sexy, really aren't.
I think I'm sexy. Are you saying that I'm not?