This makes me feel like I've been sprayed with God cologne against my will. "Get it off me!" I always want to scream. "Before I start wearing long skirts and collared shirts."
As a airline traveler, you'll likely be met at your destination by someone who asks, "So, how was your flight?"
As if there are interesting variations and you might answer, "The live orchestra was a nice touch," or "The first half was great, but then they let a baby take over the controls and it got all bumpy."
I am always polite, I respond have a good day thank you
I’m with you. I say “have a good one”. I don’t consider it a big deal.
@Stephen1364 Yes most are well meaning
Words and phrases aren't really important, but the thought behind them!
ppl and Animals show their kindness with their own language, it doesn't matter what they say; Hello, Hola, Shalom, سلام or Licking your hands and face... it simply means their regards and kindness, so respond it politely and be happy.
don't forget, we accuse religions of the lack of Tolerance and 2-side understanding!
Totally true!! Just like I have friends and family who are Republicans. There’s no problem with moderates on both sides…….it’s the extremists that are the real problem.
I do the "you too" answer. One older woman who works at the grocery says this every time but, I start the conversation by saying hi first to her every time when I see her. I really have no problem what others want to think unless they go out of their way to try and "recruit" me and I have never had that happen.
There are words and there are intentions, sometimes you just need to sort through the wheat and the chaff
My thoughts. If it is just that person's in passing way of saying "have a good day," I say "thanks, and you have a good day as well." If they are trying to sell me my religious crap, I say no thanks.
@Beowulfsfriend exactly
"Back atchya, have a good day."
No harm no foul.
I get something like this many times a day, I work customer service for a large financial organization. I usually answer with "Thanks, stay safe out there." And then I d/c the call because I'm trying to keep my call time down and hoping for a nice breather between calls.
If someone says “god bless you”, I usually ask which one? And if they say “have a blessed day” I just smile and move on as it’s usually someone at a business who thinks it’s a nice thing to say.
Mostly I just nod and move on. One time I remember because I am a smart ass, I said, 'what kind of day do you think I'm having?!?! There's 2 bags of potato chips in my cart instead of one!' I laughed and left.
Thing is that phrase never use to grate at me and for the most part it still does not until the times it does feel like your description - god cologne splashed at me.
It depends on what I want/need from them.
If I expect something from them I just acknowledge that I heard it and go on -- sort of 'you too' or something.
If all else is the same to me, I say 'No. I'll pass. Thanks.' Maybe they'll think a little without getting defensive. I'll explain if they ask.
That saying irks me to death. Whether it is said as a "blessed" day or a "bless-sed" day it still gets me. My thoughts are "who are you to tell me what kind of day to have." My upset is because it is used as a religious phrase of course. I don't want anything to do with your religion. If I tell you that I am considered hostile. My answer is usually just a "you too." I don't mean this but I do not want to wish them ill or anything. Now, going back in time on this, I had the same problems when others started wishing me a "good day." Yes, "have a good day." WTF are you to tell me that?
I think people in the UK are unlikely to encounter someone who will wish them to "have a blessed day". If it happened to me I would probably just smile and walk on. Of course, some people might use it as an occasion to vent their frustrations and third degree interrogate the well wisher as to his or her intentions.