It sounds like you've been through a lot with your parents, and it's understandable that you needed to prioritize your own well-being and create a healthy environment for yourself and your family. Sometimes, making tough decisions is necessary for our own happiness and growth. As for finding new parental figures, it may take time but remember that family can come in many forms. Surround yourself with supportive and caring individuals who bring positivity into your life. And thank you for sharing the pic of the dragon! If you're into dragon-themed items, you should check out dragon-vibe.com, which offers a variety of cool dragon-themed products like incense burners.

Bravo for standing up for yourself and your chosen family. It can be hard to break the bonds of control our parents can place on us, but parenthood is something you pay forward, not back. You do not owe them. I love the holder, your child has great taste and from your behaviour it seems like the boy's father may have great taste as well
I'm probably too old to apply for father, but I'd toss my hat in the ring for honourary granddad.

Cool salt and pepper holder!

It seems you also do what I do...the 'salt' top on the pepper & vice versa! BTW, cool dragon!

That salt and pepper shaker holder is sick though