All these years I thought I had a bad memory. Turns out I was just learning.
Not a bad idea. Sherlock Holmes believed in it.
In "A Study in Scarlet," Dr. Watson expresses surprise that Holmes is ignorant of Copernican theory and the composition of the solar system. Holmes explains that he does his best to forget any information that is not relevant to his existence.
Now, is it good that I remember that trivia -- or should it have been eliminated as clutter?
Then there's the Bucket Theory. Your mind is like a bucket, and every new thing you learn fills it up, until your bucket is so full that learning a new thing will make you forget something you already knew; it just leaks out of the bucket. This is why nuclear physicists can't find their car keys (for example).
This is also an argument against learning too many things, since nobody can be sure if they have a big bucket or a little bucket. It's why I don't learn anything at work that I don't absolutely have to know; I don't want my bucket filling up with that stuff when I could be learning interesting things instead. Also, I might have a little bucket, so why take chances?
I’m a life-long learner and think the “bucket” grows with use.
Clearly one form of forgetting is an active process. Specifically (for me), unless I work to remember dreams, the memory is suppressed until forgotten. The act of trying to remember is like a request for recall, and my brain may or may not comply, and may take several minutes to comply if it can.
One time upon waking, I knew I had an extensive dream experience. I tried and tried to remember what it was. My unusual reward for trying so hard was to have the dream recalled in an extremely rapid fire recollection. It seemed the repeated attempts to recall caused the unusually rapid memory. Very strange!