Well, the video certainly explained at least some of why I have never been hooked by this type of woman. I don't have the first two traits she talked about, the Protector trait and Helper. Hero trait. The reason for this is that I learned long ago to quit being co-dependent, and thus don't need or want a woman who needs a protector or hero, just someone who has integrity, is loving, and is nurturing and supportive. I have only wanted women who were strong and independent. I guess I should feel lucky that I lack these two traits, so these sick women have left me alone. On the other hand, maybe lots of the women in my online dating pool are this NPD type, so it could account for part of why I get so much rejection from my online dating pool, but I doubt it, since my profile by itself can't be that much of a tipoff to them about who I am. I would assume these women need to actually meet you and spend some time with you to be able to determine you are their type of victim.